If you know me, you know I will go to all sorts of lengths to save an animal's life, so of course I held up the entire frantically, frenzied queue of harried parents desperately trying to drop their kids off before the tolling of the last school bell. I had to let that little guy pass to safety, no matter the honking. And the bunny was so incredibly tiny (smaller than a small potato) that no one had a clue as to what I was doing. I was just the irritating car in the line that wouldn't move.
Despite my unhappy, irritated state, the baby bunny ordeal reminded me of one of my best funk-averting medications -- laughter. Not just any laughter -- laughing at yourself.
Many years ago -- probably a decade ago -- I encountered a similar scene. I was rushing home from work a bit earlier than usual; the sun was just setting. Right in the middle of the road in the loop that encircles our housing development -- a line of three, waddling baby ducks lost and confused. I of course pulled over to the side of the road, parked, got out, and attempted to stand in as a surrogate mother duck to guide those ducks to the fake lake in the center of our neighborhood. I ended up herding, more than leading.
But here's the funny part -- the moment that still flits into my mind from time to time and leaves me smiling. A car of teenage boys drove by, arms and heads hanging out of windows. I must have been a sight. Skirt and blouse and heels -- and ducks. Well, those young boys slowed and yelled out the window to me: "YOU'RE TOO WHITE" and then sped away, laughing. I stopped in my tracks, jaw hanging, no comeback coming to my lips. All I could think was "True." The car was gone anyway. And then all I could do was laugh. I had long given up my skin-cancer-inducing-and-fruitless efforts to get tan. White is alright. But the audacity to say (yell) such a thing!
So, when I find myself too gloomy, taking myself too seriously, I think of those boys (who are grown ups now). And I laugh. And it makes me feel good. I'll probably be telling this story to my grandchildren years and years down the road just for the joy of it.


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