Today, I'm sharing more wisdom from my bulletin board.
Thus the phrase "Hobson's choice" came to mean the choice of taking either that which is offered, or nothing. You have freedom of choice, but there's only one choice.
[This incidentally reminds me of a book I read recently (another excellent book provided by my sister Becky) called The Mysterious Benedict Society
My life is filled with Hobson's choices, or at least it feels that way. Right now, I'm chewing on a choice presented to me at the stable of life today. But the longer I chew, the more I fear that I have no choice at all. I fear that there is only one horse available to me, and I must continue to ride it. (No, the horse is not a person.)
I'm all for freedom of choice. It just irks me when the choices are illusory. I must admit that I offer Hobson (or nearly-Hobson) choices to my children all the time. "We don't want to take baths!" "Okay then. I'll give you a choice. You can take a bath in the upstairs tub. Or you can take a bath in the downstairs tub." (Either way, they are taking baths and have no choice in the matter.) It's effective with children, and I suppose it's effective with me too.
Well, this may be cold comfort, but one could argue that choices galore actually make us unhappy. Here'


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